Showing posts with label My Misfortunes. Show all posts
Showing posts with label My Misfortunes. Show all posts

Monday, November 9, 2009

Another Alpha Man from NSU has been called home. 3 E Pi bruhs in 1 month! :(


BET.com News Producer Bro. Tracy Stokes

The Brothers of the Epsilon Pi Chapter of Alpha Phi Alpha at NSU have lost another one of our beloved family members. That's 3 in 1 month. We all are taken by these occurrences and have decided to use these tragic events to recognize that we cannot take life for granted. We all have vowed to tell each other and our family and friends how much we care before it'd too late. Tomorrow is not promised; so we tragically have seen in this past month!

One of the brothers from my chapter, Bro. David Lewis, sent an email to our chapter's email listserve to encourage and appeal to us all.

Bro's, I'm so distraught that there's been another death in E Pi. Tracy Stokes...Fall 93' ....Thats right brahs, 2 off one line. 3 BRO'S in little over a month. Bros, if you never heard me tell you before, I love you all. Life swoops us all up and we put each other last. I personally have had many an obstacle but my heart has always been with E Pi but we all need to make E Pi a part of our lives again. Sometimes we argue, we have differences, we have uncommon interest but as we are so harshly reminded of again, 2 morrow's not promised. I challenge all of u to find room for E Pi in your life as I have challenged myself with the same charge...RIP Tracy

Peace 06

David Lewis,
Spr90 #12
Texas Pete a.k.a Backdoor..''

Nexus'' (Lester Arnold Dp 'Fall '87)


The journalism world and Black Entertainment Television lost a true professional and friend Sunday afternoon when BET.com news producer Tracy Stokes succumbed to complications from kidney failure. He was 37 years old.

According to his mother, Lilly Stokes, a retired teacher living in North Carolina, Tracy died at 4:07 p.m. Sunday at Wake Med Hospital in Raleigh. He had pneumonia in both lungs, she said.

Despite his long bout with kidney problems, which meant steady visits to doctors and other specialists, Tracy enjoyed working, and he never used his illness as an excuse for giving less than his best.

“I don’t think most people know just how giving Tracy was,” said Mrs. Stokes. “He really believed in helping people, and he wanted to see folks loving one another. He couldn’t deal with people disrespecting each other. He liked people to be straightforward.”

For those who never had the pleasure of working with Tracy, you were likely connected to him in ways you didn’t even know. If you visited BET.com over much of the past half-decade and clicked on such popular BET.com segments as the “Bring That Week Back” photo flipbook, the annual “Those We Lost” obituary compilation or the “World Lens” section, which highlights photos of people of color making news throughout the world, you were indeed connected to Tracy. He worked meticulously on these projects, among many others, and went about his duties as a news gatherer and producer with passion and pride.

It was only fitting that many of his activities and assignments at BET.com revolved around photography. Tracy was an avid and accomplished photojournalist, who established a successful photography business, Fotos By Tracy, which he ran with V. Scott Hamilton and Rodney Turner.

Tracy landed at BET.com just shortly after Hurricane Katrina had ravaged the Gulf Coast. I was BET.com’s managing editor at the time and heard about Tracy from Retha Hill, then the vice president of content.

I hired Tracy, who had worked at ABC Channel 3 in Norfolk, Va.; NBC Channel 10 in Portsmouth, Va., and ABC in Washington, D.C., and he helped plan and execute the most comprehensive news coverage on the Internet of that tragic natural disaster as it related to African Americans. Not only did he serve as a deft photo editor, but he wrote timely, interesting articles; uploaded daily video clips; recorded and produced person-on-the-street interviews; and corresponded with students and reporters who converged in the Gulf Coast. Tracy was also a major part of BET.com’s election coverage over the years.

One of my special “Tracy Moments”: I arrived at BET.com one morning about 7 a.m. Tracy, who had already been there about an hour working on the day’s news, didn’t know I had entered the news room, and he was belting out the most beautiful version of the Negro spiritual “His Eye is On the Sparrow” I have ever heard.

“Wow!” I said. “Are you kidding me? You can sing like that?”

Responded Tracy: “You’d better not tell anybody!”

Of course, I couldn’t wait to tell everybody I ran into that day. I hope he forgave me.

“‘His Eye Is On the Sparrow’ was his favorite tune,” Mrs. Stokes told me today. “He would call me sometimes and sing it to me over the phone, and it would make me cry.”

Tracy was born in Clinton, N.C., but spent many of the past several years in Waldorf, Md. A graduate of Clinton High, he attended Hampton University, eventually transferring to Norfolk State University, where he graduated cum laude. He was a member of the Alpha Kappa Mu Honor Society and the Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity.

“Tracy was a good friend and trusted colleague,” said Tanu Henry, senior manager of BET.com News. “He brought energy and attitude, an appreciation for detail, thoroughness, organization and passion to everything he did in his life and at work. His contributions will be missed sorely, even as we fondly keep him in our memories.”

“Tracy Stokes has had a great impact on BET.com,” said Diana Clark-Baty, Senior Vice President of BET Digital. “I, like many of you, will personally miss the interactions with Tracy. I am enriched having known Tracy Stokes.”

In addition to his mother, Tracy is survived by his father, William Stokes Sr., a retired principal.Funeral arrangements are pending.
http://www.bet.com/News/Obituary_BET_News_Producer_Tracy_Stokes_Dies.htm

--Shelley A Simpson
Media ManagerCleanSkies.TV News

Monday, October 19, 2009

In our dear A Phi A...embued with memories fond...are the noble, the true and courageous! R.I.P. Bruhs!

Within the past two weeks, amongst the memory-filled and future focused emails that my fraternity brothers (new school and ol' school) and I share on our chapter listserve, there were two threads of emails that we were saddened to have to begin and reply to. Two of our beloved BROTHERS of our dear fraternity have passsed away but will never leave our hearts or memories! Brothers Major Franklin Blackmon of Fall '93 and Arthur Smith of Spr. '90 have now been inducted into the Omega Chapter of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc. Thus, a brother of A Phi A will always be a brother of A Phi A, even in death!


Brother Arthur Smith
Brother Arthur Smith was a ninth-grade English teacher. He was shot to death when being robbed Saturday night, October 4, 2009 while visiting family in Portsmouth, Va. Good brother!
http://www.13wmaz.com/news/local_story.aspx?storyid=69873&provider=email#



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Brother Major Franklin Blackmon
Brother Major Franklin Blackmon was felled by bacterial menengitis less than a month after getting back from a tour in Iraq. He leaves behind a wife and 2 young children. Good brother!

I'd like to take this time to let the families of our fallen brothers know that you all are most definitely in our thoughts and prayers. We, the brothers of thr Epsilon Pi Chapter of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc. have sent and continue to send up prayers with confidence in knowing that God will keep you in perfect peace during this grieving period and beyond.

When writing this post, I went to the article written about Brother Arthur Smith and read the comments that were left by some of his students, friends, and family. One of the persons who left a comment...one of his 9th grade students, acutally brought me to tears while at work. I used to be a teacher and I guess you never really know how much of an impact you have on your students. A lot of times, as a teacher, you just look at it like, "This is just what I do...who I am...I'm a teacher."

However, I heard a quote a while ago that just stuck with me. And I think it's just so profound. "Being a teacher is the closest thing to touching the future!"


bsg9108 wrote:
Wow!! Like oh my gosh...me being a student at Rutland High, a student that personally has had Mr.Smith's class, I am so shocked! And at the same time I feel bad upon my self because I cant even remember the last time I spoke to him, and I saw him everyday.


I myself thought this was a joke when I heard it last night, but when I actually found out the truth from a teacher a few hours later it hurt! And it also hit me, no matter how nice, holy, or how much of a "christian life" for say that u live bad things will always happen. Mr.Smith was the nicest person in the world and he was never purposely rude to anyone and even when he would slip up he apologized. All he wanted out of us was to be SCHOLARS and we never gave him the respect he truly deserved. It goes to show life can be cut short whenever no matter what type of situation you're in.

It was always "young mr.this" and "young ms.that" and we thought it was the corniest thing in the world. lol. but hey he was Mr.Smith you had to love him. even when he walked down the hall singing "hopped up out the bed turned my swag on" I truly dont think I could ever walk past his class with the same attitude again. Its just so wierd. Mr. Smith we love you and miss you terribly. I'm so glad that I actually got the chance to know you! Being in your class was one of the best experiences I had as a freshman last year! We as your students make you the promise to always try our best to become the scholars you wanted us to be! And we have absolutely no "quarrel" with that :)

Rest in peace Mr.Smith. We love you. And I can say that the least we owe you as the class of 2012 is our respect to you! You taught us to never give up no matter what comes in the way. We will make it! R.I.P Arthur W. Smith Jr.
10/5/2009 3:47 PM EDT on 13wmaz.com


Brothers of the Epsilon Pi Chapter of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc. had this to say about Brother Major Franklin Blackmon.


Brother Maurice Hakins wrote...
My prayers go out to Brother Blackmon and his family. I remember Frank as a brother with a wonderful sense of humor. He was always positive and up beat and a great representative of our beloved fraternity. "Manly Deeds, Scholarship and Love for All Mankind."

Brother Travonte Jenkins wrote...
The current brothers of Epsilon Pi send our thoughts and prayers out to Brother Blackmon's family.....

Fraternally,
TraVonte J. Jenkins
Chapter president




Stay informed...get the facts about Bacterial Meningitis!
In the United States, bacterial meningitis is relatively rare and usually occurs in isolated cases. Clusters of more than a few cases are uncommon. Approximately 80 percent of all cases are acute bacterial meningitis. Bacterial meningitis can be life threatening. The infection can cause the tissues around the brain to swell. This in turn interferes with blood flow and can result in paralysis, stroke or death.

Thursday, October 1, 2009

Flipped 3 times and walked away without a scratch!

My vehicle was ended up facing the flow of traffic!


My mother's truck on the tow truck.

My mom and brother, Bruce went to the salvage lot to claim our belongings from the truck.


I'm writing you all to keep you abreast of how I am doing/feeling in light of a car accident I was in this past Saturday. This was a life threatening accident that occurred on Saturday, September 26, 2009. I will always remember this date.


It was raining heavily while I drove northbound on the Baltimore/Washington Parkway. I was in the middle lane when a minivan cut from the right lane into my lane, causing me to swerve to the left lane, almost hitting a car in that lane. I tried to gain control of my vehicle but because of the wet terrain I was unable to do so. These turn of events caused my vehicle to fishtail across three lanes and drive directly into the trees on the right side of the road. This caused my truck to flip over about 3 times. Luckily, I ultimately landed on four wheels and I was able to climb out of my shattered driver side window to call for help.

I'm letting you all know this because I am still dealing with the fact and the reality that I don't have to be living right now and I wanted make sure everyone realizes that your next hour isn't promised. Please don't take life for granted. Make the most out of every moment. You just don't know when your time will come. I still have flashbacks of the accident and it makes me cringe every time I think of this occurance. I've posted 2 pictures of the end result. My car was facing the opposite direction of the traffic when I came to a complete stop.

Thank GOD for your life every day because we have to realize, HE doesn't owe us anything! It is because of HIS grace and mercy that we have breath today...and maybe tomorrow.


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Christoph Exodus Jenkins Whatever U R doing right now STOP & thank GOD for LIFE! I just flipped over 3 times in a car accident! & becuz of GOD, no scratches. JESUS!
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Danielle Goode
I am glad you are ok and thank GOD you are alive and well!!!
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Jessica Renee Butler
God is so good! I'm so happy you're okay! Praise God!
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Dyme O Morman
Amen to that!! i am happy that yout ok...thank God for grace!
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Danielle Goode
WoW!! That's crazy!!! No one else got hurt right?
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Nikoshia Williams
Oh NO!!!! Im so glad you are ok. And thank you soo much cause i sure did need to hear that encouragement! In Spite of it ALL! Amen!
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Keisha Kirkland
GOD IS EXCELLLENT....I am Praising HIM right now for your life Chris...
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MsValarie WeddingDiva
I am so glad to hear that u r ok!!
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Wendy Williams
Glad you are okay Chris..
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Jessica Wray Brinkley
ARE U SERIOUS?!?!?!?! THAT'S CRAZY!!! and sooooo AWESOME that u are safe! :)
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Christoph Exodus Jenkins
Thank you so much!!
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Jessica Wray Brinkley
and WHY are u FBing?!?!?! LOL
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Jennifer Broadnax
Praise God...Thank you Lord :)
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Monique Brown
I am glad that you are okay! God is good!!!
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Brennetta Gregory
WOW..God is AWESOME & I am extremly thankful he had mercy on your life. Keep being faithful 2 God Chris your life was spared 4 a reason and thank our father for sending us a big brother like Jesus!
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Eva Stokes Wood
Hallelujah!!!!!!!!
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Christoph Exodus Jenkins
I'm so thankful!!!
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Karyn Candi Haskins
Praise God from whom all blessings flow!! Son, you are so faithful and God spared your life so that you can continue doing His will! Jesus thank you for protecting Chris!!! You have a testimony!!!!!!
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Quiana Ingram
OMG!!!!!! I thank Jesus right now that you were not hurt Chris he surely had his hands over you today!!!!!
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Colin Stephens
I'm glad to hear that your ok big bro.. What happened??
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Meliha Martin
God bless you, truly amazing...continue to praise Him.
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James Riddick
my God is awesome
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Patricia D. Ruth
I know your Momma SHOUTED 'round that church today! Thank God you're okay!
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Christoph Exodus Jenkins
Yeah! Everyone was just so thankful to God.
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Regina Guyther
Glad to know you are okay. God is absolutely awesome.

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Jennifer Broadnax
amen...Praise God :)
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Gerald Scott
wow dude! Good stuff.
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Kelsey Herrity
...?!@&#^@??? glad you are safe chris. phew...that is nuts! were you driving?? any injuries? phhhuuuuu!
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Domonic Bearfield
what the heck? Glad you are ok.
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J.D. Wells
Damn...glad u are ok
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LaVaughn LV Adderley
glad to see you ok man.
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Cianti Greenaugh Williams
Glad you are safe!
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Christoph Exodus Jenkins
Thanks everyone! I'm just thankful for my life!
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Eric Williams
Thank you Jesus!
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Goddard Robinson
Glad you are still with us bro!
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Shea Roane
Glad you are ok...God Is Good and His Grace and His mercy toward us is amazing!!!!! That is an awesome testimony to share with those who dont know about HIS goodness!!
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Eva Stokes Wood
What a testimony!!! God is so good.
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Erika Totten
wow...so glad you're still here...you must have a lot more to do for Him...
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Rich Akwo
God is soooooo Good brother..He has plans for you
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Herve Lamisere
Wow son what happened
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Erika Duque
wow.
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Lester Bailey Jr
Whoa, I'm glad you're okay man. Some weren't as fortunate in similar situations. So thank God everyday that you made it another day homie.
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Leslie Ellis
OMG...Im glad ur okay..I swear thats what I saw on the BW pkwy earlier....God is good!!!
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Latoya Bailey
God is so Good....wow
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Christoph Exodus Jenkins
that was me. someone cut me off and I swerved and flipped over 3 times
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Leslie Ellis
wow....ppl and their driving...Im just glad that ur not hurt...
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Jessica Wray Brinkley
in the words of kanye, thank God u weren't too cool for your safety belt!!! :)
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Lester Bailey Jr
@ Jessica... That was the best thing Kanye ever said that was meaningful.
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Kimberly L. Holloway
Im glad ur ok. bishop just told me and I did not know that was you when I passed on the way to the dinner. God is so good.
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Shayla Lewis
God is GOOD!
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Shun Harper
Glad you're ok Chris
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Christoph Exodus Jenkins
Thanks everyone! God is amazing!
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Te Yead
I empathize with you man...a F-350 t-boned my brand new Camry last year(this man was going like 60 in a 35 lol) right before Chrismas and I spun around 3 times, landed perfectly on the grass, all the airbags deployed and the car was totaled but I came out with some minor abdomen bruising and some neck pain but I was fine. I coulda been dead so I thank the Lord everyday I'm able to live and crack another joke!! lol But I'm glad ur ok dude!
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Christoph Exodus Jenkins
Thanks man! Randy! lol
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Evelyn Eve Shelton
Omg Chris that is crazy like everyone else said im glad ur ok!
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Te Yead
LOL@ Randy!!! You and that chick named Ramsey!! Nostalgic!! lol
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Eric Williams
Glad you're ok Chris.
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Coco Brown
OMG Christoph! I saw that on the Parkway too! Coming from D.C....I'm like, how did that person do that? Because the truck was facing the opposite direction than what way traffic was going!
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April Holloway
My God Chris..... the only thing I cans say is BUT GOD!!!!
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Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Feeling the Effects of This Failing Economy


I know that it's been a while since I have posted to my blog but in the past couple of months I've been faced with the rude awakening and the real reality of this failed economy. Since early January, I have been one of the 5.1 million job seekers in America. It has been a very long road to finding a job but I after sending out close to 200 resumes to employers around the DC Metropolitan area. This period of time was particularly frustrating for me because I have never been a person to remain idle. I've always had a job, sometimes two. When I returned from Korea in October, a friend of the family blessed me with the opportunity to work for her production company as a contractor for a government contracted project. When the job was complete, my contract ended. And I didn't know nor did I realize that finding a job would be so difficult.

The key ingredient to my frustrastion was me noticing that it was time for me to start looking for a career as oppose to a job or a gig. So in the process of me evaluating my skills and qualifications and most importantly, my passions, I was also faced with the real notion that I might have to take whatever job I can get first. This is primarily because the recession has put a tight squeeze on people's plans and agendas as they relate to starting a career, purchasing a home, sending their children to college, things along those lines.


To make a long story short, I have become a substitute teacher at Bishop McNamara High School. It has been fun. I've come to the realization that I love teaching. I enjoy being in the position to pass on information that I have been blessed attain. I also had an interview this past Friday at Walter Reed and it went really well. I was informed that "I GOT THE JOB."

All in all, I have learned to be content even in a low place. If I can be content and still give God all the praise while times seem unbarable, then I will excel exponentially when I begin to climb out of that place that seemed so low.

God bless all and stay encouraged while flexing your muscle of contentment.


Christoph J.

Friday, September 19, 2008

In Loving Memory of Maximus-G



The other morning, I was forced to do something I hadn't done in about 3 months. I had to walk to work. I know that sounds really minuscule, but the reason why I had to walk is the disturbing part. Someone stole my bike the previous night while I was in a PC Cafe at midnight. Recently, my internet signal has been pretty weak so it has been going in and out at the most untimely of times. So after I came from the weightroom, I figured that I'd go to the cafe and handle some business on the internet for about 2 hours (11pm-1am) and then head home. When I left the cafe, my bike was gone. And the worst part about it, I couldn't communicate my frustration with anyone.

I can't speak Korean so I'm approaching everyone in the vicinity trying to ask them if they saw someone ride off on my bike. I'm standing there looking like a mime with a voice, making hand gestures and vroom vroom sounds trying to explain my plight. Each and everyone of those Koreans said the same thing pretty much. "Mu-ly-0!" That means, "I don't know." Thay said a lot more, but the rest just sounded like jibberish.



Needless to say, I'm highly upset and saddened. It would be good for me not to see a Korean riding my bike because if I do, I might catch a Korean charge and have to stay in Korea for clothes lining a Korean off my bike. lol

Anyway, here is a video of me riffing my bike for the last and a few pictures in ceremonial remembrance of dear "Maximus G." Oh! Sorry to throw you off, but that's the name of my bike. Look!

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